Ask Your Self These Questions

Look at yourself first

Before you decide the other person is not “the one” think about what YOU are doing to undermine the relationship. You may need to change your approach and not your partner.

 Stop expecting and start accepting

Don’t expect your mate to fulfill all of your needs, all of the time. Accept your partner’s shortcomings and take responsibility for your happiness.

 Commit all the way

Commitment isn’t like a high- or low-risk investment. It is only when you invest fully in a relationship that you can experience the depth of true love.

 Focus on the We rather than the Me

If you want to be in a long-term relationship it’s not all about you anymore. Deal with it!

Help  Fuel the fire

While chemistry is important, it’s not just about feeling the spark. You have to tend to the spark.