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Drive thy
business or it will drive thee.
Benjamin Franklin (1706 - 1790)
GOAL Setting
Anyone who does anything worthwhile anywhere has consciously or
unknowingly followed through on goals.
Goal Setting keep us focused on a purpose.
Goal Setting feed determination through difficult times when many others less
motivated would give up.
A person who wants to get the most out of life often has a number of goals
simmering at the same time, in their personal and business lives.
On this site, learn the science behind the setting and achieving of goals.
Then apply it to YOUR life! Start Goal Setting Today!
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Positive-Attitude Habit
What are you really missing out on?
Life is all about experience.
Most of us have quite a vast intellectual knowledge of the world. Intellectually
we know what's available to us as human beings and although most people haven't
got everything they want, they at least have an intellectual knowledge of it.
They know what exists and they know what is available. There is, however a huge
difference between intellectual knowledge and experiential knowledge.
We all long to experience the objects of our desire. Knowing simply isn't
enough. We want to feel and we want to experience that which we know by engaging
all our senses and all of our nervous system to fully comprehend that which
exists only as impulses in our minds. Until and unless you actually experience
something it will remain an idea and a concept that will always leave you
wanting more. Experience is the process by which you turn your intellectual
knowledge into a physical experience and when you experience it, it becomes real
because you get to feel it in your nervous system. You involve your emotions
and, in the process, you get to feel the fullness of a concept turned real and
made manifest in reality. You can know yourself to be kind, but until and unless
you do something kind, the idea will remain intellectual and weak. Only when you
take the idea and act on it will you create the experience. Having the
experience of kindness is what you really want.
Experience then is something we create by taking an idea and putting it to use
through action. It is when you use your will to take action when you get to
"see" the invisible idea take shape in physical form and through physical
experience. We all have a deep seeded need to experience that which we know
intellectually and that which we crave to experience through our senses and our
emotions. From this point of view we are all constantly striving to experience
through our physical bodies and our emotions that which we hold as an idea in
our intellect and our minds.
The easiest way to turn your ideas into reality is through action. When you use
your will you can take any idea and just do it to have the experience of your
knowledge. The real purpose of knowledge is action for what good is knowledge
when you can't use it? The challenge for most people is that they are held back
by their own limiting beliefs and fears. Fears and limiting beliefs are actually
imaginary for the belief that taking action might lead to a specific "bad"
outcome is what actually prevents you from taking action. It is the fear that
doing "this" will mean "that" or will lead to "that" even though it has not
occurred yet (and will most probably not).
The reality is that all experience in life happens through contrast. We live in
a world that is relative. Everything in life exists in relation to something
else and everything in life has it's reciprocal. A wise man once said that
someone born blind will never know the meaning of darkness for he's never seen
the light. Neale Donald Walsh explains it beautifully in Conversations with God
when he said that in the absence of that which is not, that which is, is not.
For us to experience anything we must also experience the opposite. Life can
never be just a flat and one dimensional experience. It simply does not exist.
The challenge is that most people live in the delusion that their lives are in
shatters because there are some things they do not like. In reality they are
just experiencing the opposite of what they do want. Hot does not exist without
cold. There can be no rainbow without the storm. It is in the contrast that we
get to truly live life through the experience of both . When you learn to see
life experiences as different states of the same thing you can start to really
appreciate all of life and truly have the experience of living life.
Appreciating and acknowledging that which is not the way you want, will give you
a totally different perspective on everything that you do not like in your life,
both past and present. Whether you are feeling lonely, depressed, sad or
frustrated you can actually start to appreciate these emotions for it's because
of them that you can experience love, vitality, joy and passion.
Regardless of whether you call something good or bad, experience is what will
give you fulfillment in life. You have one incredible gift and that is to take
your inner desires and experience them. This gift is the gift of action which is
your ability to take an impulse of thought and desire and put it to use.
In it's original latin form the word experience actually means to "test" or to
"try". When you relinquish your attachment to just experiencing pleasure you
will start to see the use and even the meaning of pain for the one creates and
defines the other. Experience has no, and needs no attachment to specific
outcomes. Although it does not guarantee you a specific outcome, it does
guarantee you a rich life that is filled with a multitude of contrasting
sensations. Every cell in your body has a "memory" and through experience you
get to feel and "record" your intellectual knowledge by engaging all of you.
This is the true meaning of "knowing" for it comes with a deep sense of
certainty that you feel in your whole body. This is when you "know it in your
bones" – it is a deeper understanding that can never come from intellectual
knowledge alone. Your world cannot be grasped by contemplation and knowledge
alone, but only through action.
Compelling
Goals How many times have you set a goal, felt
excited, started some action, and then dropped it when it became too tough to
follow through, or you got sidetracked? What about the other goals that you
actually accomplished? What was the difference that made you follow through on
one goal, but not the other?
More Than Goal
Setting Did you know that every thought that we think creates a
vibration? Negative thoughts create negative feelings that lead to low frequency
vibrations, whereas positive thoughts create positive feelings that produce high
frequency vibrations. According to the universal Law of Attraction, "vibes"
attract like "vibes".
Goal Setting &
Attainment I am sure that many of you are deep into the drama and
excitement of the holiday season. There is so much to be done and so much to
think about and consider that many can hardly think of anything else. However,
when the excitement is over, our attention typically turns the closing of one
year and the beginning of a new one.
Setting the right fitness
goal Many fall short of their ideal level of fitness because
they either do not set goals or set totally inappropriate goals with only one
likely outcome – failure. Yet if you spend a little more time on setting your
goals you will increase your chances of success and the rewards will be greater.
A System For
Goal Setting Most people will agree that goal setting is an important
strategy in obtaining what we desire. If you don't set goals you will not know
what to look for to determine whether an achievement was truly a success or not.
The sad thing is that only a very small part of those who understand the need
for setting goals actually take the time to figure out what they really want to
accomplish and outline a plan for reaching them.
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